3/30/2024 0 Comments Kink compatibility checklist![]() ![]() You can choose that or only select the options that fit you. Sometimes you get an “all of the above” option. Skip the whole question if none of the answers fit you – especially if it’s something you don’t enjoy or aren’t interested in. You get the point, right? What took me a minute to figure out was that if something didn’t apply to me, I didn’t need to select anything. When you read through your options, you have several options to choose from: No, it’s not every single kink or fetish, but if you’re new to kink or just talking to your partner about what you want, it’s plenty. You’ll get options from blowjobs to cuddling and from bondage to choking. But by reading an option and going with my quick instinctual response based on how something made me feel, it took less than 10 minutes. On your own, not together, take the 170+ questionnaire. ![]() Once you receive your log-in information, you both log in separately but enter the main account email address (the one you used to sign up with) when asked so that you’re linked and the system can compare your answers correctly. Sign up for an account for $40 per couple (as of the publication date). Yes, yes, (to my communication purists out there) I know it’s better to talk about ALL of it, but starting on common ground isn’t a bad idea, either. Instead of having a conversation where you may feel nervous about revealing every kinky thing you want to try – without knowing how your partner will react – Simpatic.Us lets you talk only about the topics where you’re compatible. I’ve learned over the years that 1) there’s always something more to learn and 2) any tool that can tell me what I know to be true about us may help people who haven’t gotten to that same point yet. John Brownstone and I were given the opportunity to review Simpatic.Us – an online questionnaire system (in exchange for an honest review) to see how we liked it, and what we thought of the concept. Now there’s a tool for the awkward (but necessary) conversation that can help – Simpatic.Us. The solution to the first two are sort of obvious, right? But that third one can be tougher, especially if you’re trying to talk about kinky wants and desires and you’re not sure how your partner will respond to them. I blame it on my submissive nature, but I know that’s not true for every submissive. In my relationship with John Brownstone, I still find it difficult to talk about my sexual needs or wants sometimes. I’m also a woman who spent 12 years not saying the things that needed to be said and had a crappy marriage as a result. I’m the one who advises writing things down and showing your “letter” to your partner if the words won’t squeeze past your throat. It’s one of the best ways to resolve conflict, disagreements, and bad feelings.īut let’s be honest. Talking things out before they become problems keeps everything (not just your relationship) moving forward. ![]()
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